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tips + tricks FOR WEDDING PLANNING

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been there, done that.

I've been in your shoes before and completely understand how daunting it can feel to plan an entire wedding.


Before you open Pandora's box, remember this:  Your marriage is more important than your wedding day. It is so easy to get caught up in the planning, trying to keep up with the wedding trends, finding the perfect vendors, trying to control and cultivate every single detail about the day.


Put more energy into creating the marriage of your dreams than the wedding of your dreams. Your day will go by in the blink of an eye, but your marriage lasts forever. Prepare in your relationship, have the hard conversations, and posture your heart towards serving and caring for your spouse for a lifetime.


Be present in your day, focus on the moments and the memories, not the epic Instagram-worthy photos. 

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first looks AND SUNSETS

 

 

tips and tricks FOR WEDDING PLANNING

 

Before setting your ceremony time, consider sunset time and whether or not you’ll be doing a first look. If you’re not doing a first look, your ceremony time should be at least 2 hours before sunset. You need enough time after the ceremony to do family portraits, full bridal party photos, and bride + groom portraits.

If you are doing a first look, you have the option to complete most photos before your ceremony.


In the summer months when sunset is later, I often like to bring couples back out after the reception entrance for quick sunset photos while guests eat. 

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getting ready PHOTOS

 

Want to know the secret to  those perfect getting ready photos on your wedding day?

The room!

Here’s what makes a space optimal for photos:

Natural light, baby. Give me allllll the windows! This allows the space to be bright enough to get those dreamy photos without compromising their quality.

Bright walls are essential. If you are surrounded by wood paneling with orangey tones, that orange will reflect on your face creating muddy skin tones. Bright walls keep tones clean and true to color.

Elbow room is key! You do not want to be tripping over each other’s feet for hours. Pick a space that’s roomy and allows you all to get ready without major collisions.


BONUS: You can always rent a cute air bnb if your space doesn’t quite hit the mark!



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don't skip the ENGAGEMENT SESSION


Why you should always do an engagement session with your wedding photographer:

You get to know your photographer! An engagement session is the best way to establish a relationship with one of the people who you will spend the most item with on your wedding day.

It helps you get comfortable in front of the camera. Most people are not used to being in front of the camera, and an engagement session can help ease allll the nerves. You get to know how your photographer works and it will help you feel more relaxed and natural on your wedding day.

You get beautiful photos with your love to remember this season of life. This one is a no brainer, but your engagement photos can have so many uses - save-the-dates, wedding invitations, guest books, wedding centerpieces, wedding website, and more!

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private moments

8 ways to incorporate private moments in your wedding day timeline:


Private vow or letters

Private dinner in a separate room from your guests

Private last dance

10 minutes to grab a drink and chat after the ceremony

5 minutes after your first look before photos start

Getaway car straight out of the ceremony

Stay outside for 5 more minutes after sunset photos before re-entering the reception

Go back for an outfit change together

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VEIL or no veil?

 

I see you. You want to look and feel 1000% you on your wedding day but cannot decide if you’re in to wearing a long veil, short veil, lacey veil, pearly veil, or skip it all together!

Here are 4 reasons why the veil always wins:

The photos, man. If you’ve seen them, you love them. There is truly nothing dreamier than pics of you two under that feathery white fabric. Floor-length or cathedral veils are best to give you those romantic vibes.

They give you that *bride* feeling. There’s a reason that they put a veil on you and the bridal shop right before you say yes to the dress. A veil brings everything together. It brings the wow factor as it cascades behind you walking down the aisle.

It allows you to add a little cha-cha-cha to your look! You could choose a classic satin gown and create a whole new feeling by adding on an embroidered veil.

It’s such a great asset for details photos!

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KIND WORDS

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“I cannot say enough about Liz. Not only are her photos beautiful, she works well with her clients and she handles some of the most difficult situations with such care and understanding.” - Diandre M.

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the perfect FIRST KISS

 

How to get the perfect first-kiss photos at the altar:

Kiss for more than one second! Count one Mississippi, two Mississipi, three . . . .  five Mississipi. The longer you’re kissing, the greater the chance for a perfect, in focus photo.

Ask your officiant to step aside during the kiss. It is best if they actually step aside before they announce that you may kiss. This will prevent them from not only being right behind you but also to bot be right next to you as you kiss. They can easily tuck behind the wedding party for the best results.

Kiss again in the aisle! Go for the dip. Not only does it make for another kissing opportunity but how sweet to be surrounded by the people that gathered to celebrate you!

Put your flowers down! I can’t tell you how many times brides accidentally hold their flowers in front of their faces! A rule of thumb I always tell brides is to keep your flowers down by your belly button.



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SAVE THE DATES, INVITATIONS, RSVPS - when should they be sent?

 

Save the dates: 6-8 months before wedding


Invitations: 6-8 weeks before wedding date. If your wedding is out-of-town, be sure to send them at least 12 weeks before to give a little extra time for guests to arrange travel plans.


RSVPs: Your RSVP date affects way more than you think it will! Set this deadline to be at least one month before your wedding date. You need these numbers to make final plans with your caterer, venue, wedding planners, and to make seating charts and place cards.

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TAKE A step back

 

Something will more than likely go wrong on your wedding day. It’s inevitable.


There is no such thing as a perfect wedding day. Things will go wrong, people will be scrambling, and you won’t be able to control every little detail. Emotions leading up to and on your wedding day can be high and that’s okay.

Don’t put too much pressure on yourself to have “the best day of your life.” Your wedding day is just the start of so many amazing days to come! If you focus on being present, letting go of control, and being ready to embrace all the emotions, I promise you, your day will be packed full of beautiful memories.

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Woods + Co. Photography is a Terre Haute based Indiana photographer specializing in weddings and seniors.


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